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Overcoming Addictions and Compulsive Behavior

"No human power could deliver us, but God could and would if HE were sought"

The SERENITY Prayer
http://www.aagrapevine.org/gvhist2.html

Complete Serenity Prayer
http://saltfactory.com/library/poetry/serenity.htm

Satan's Clown
by Frank Gallagher (who is now in that Big Meeting in the sky )

Barefoot Bob's site.
There you will find Bob's collection of invaluable material from
AA --Alcoholics Anonymous. Of special interest is :
"12 Steps Table Talk -- Chapter Five of the Big Book
http://www.barefootsworld.net/tabltalk.html
http://www.barefootsworld.net/abc_pg60.html

Be good to yourself and stop by Bob's place...
(and just don't take that first drink )


Audio Tapes of Speaker Meetings -- AA and Al-Anon
ENCORE Audio Archives
www.12steptapes.com
http://www.12steptapes.com/cataloge.html

HOPE for those under addiction
www.cybertime.net/~ajgood/fellowship.html

Recovery Connection for 12 step books and gifts
www.recoveryconnectiongifts.com

The Grapevine
www.aagrapevine.org

FORUM http://www.aagrapevine.org/isay/forum.html

ATTITUDE by Chuck Swindoll

The Greatest Thing in all the World
http://silkworth.net/henry_drummond/hd_tablecontents.htm

Be Ye Sober


Putting on the New Man

The Man in the Glass

When you get what you want in your struggle for Self
and the world makes you king for a day
Just go to a mirror and look at yourself
And see what that man has to say.

For it isn't your parents, your children or wife
Whom judgment upon you must pass
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass

Some people may think you're a strait-shooting chum
And call you a wonderful guy
But the man in the glass says you're only a bum
If you can't look him straight in the eye.

He's the fellow to please; never mind all the rest
For he's with you clear up to the end
And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the man in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of life
And get pats on your back as you pass
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears
If you've cheated the man in the glass.
-Dale Wimbrow


"One Day at a Time"
http://www.mamarocks.com/one_day_at_a_time.htm

Why Me, Lord ?
http://www.alighthouse.com/melord.htm

Day by Day
http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/d/d011.html
http://rockhay.tripod.com/worship/orders/2003/03-05-18.htm

Just a Closer Walk with Thee
http://www.mamarocks.com/closer_walk_with_thee.htm

It takes a lot of Courage
http://saltfactory.com/library/poetry/courag1.htm

Alcohol: Biggest Problem in America
Speaking at the Alcohol Policy XI Conference in Chicago, General [ Barry ] McCaffrey asked which drug
was causing most violence among American people. "It's alcohol," he said. "
And it all starts with the abuse of beer and wine coolers by adolescent Americans......
McCaffrey stands by his word, that alcohol is the primary drug of abuse in America,
not only for young people but for adults of all ages.
http://www.ias.org.uk/theglobe/1998issue3/czar.htm

"This kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting"
Matthew 17:21 and Mark 9:29
(totally abstaining from the object of compulsion.......
alcohol, drugs, pornography, gambling, sex, overeating, cigarettes, etc. etc. etc.)

"Half-measures avail us nothing" ......

7 % of workers drink on the job -- Jan. 16, 2006
Of all psychoactive substances with the potential to impair cognitive and behavioral performance, alcohol is the most widely used and misused substance in the general population and in the work force," said Frone, research associate professor in the university's Psychology Department
http://www.lasvegassun.com/sunbin/stories/thrive/2006/jan/12/011202547.html

"One is too many and 1,000 not enough"





By the way, who are the Rechabites????
www.blueletterbible.org/kjv/Jer/Jer035.html

"To many, total abstinence is easier than perfect moderation." -- ST. AUGUSTINE



JUST FOR TODAY
http://www.storybin.com/lists/list111.shtml

God is still on the Throne
And (sincere) PRAYER CHANGES THINGS


A New Day
http://susie1114.com/Newday.htm

Bill Wilson's original 'Big Book' Master Copy sold at auction - June 24, 2004
1 + 1/2 million dollars
http://www.nytimes.com/2004/06/19/books/19SCHO.html

"My Name is the Big Book"
www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/features/2628894


Who are "ENABLERS" ???
Enablers are people who are too close to you to release you with love...
They need a program also for reality-love (tough-love)
I can't ... God can... so let Him
Let Go and Let God
http://www.alanon.org.za/

From time to time family members and friends of addicts will act in ways that allow the abuse to continue. These people are referred to as "enablers". Enablers may make excuses for the addict, but rarely seek help for themselves. Al-Anon and Alateen are for them.
http://www.texas-al-anon.org/
http://www.allsands.com/Health/Diseases/symptomsofaddi_ydg_gn.htm

"Dear God, Let me not take to myself nor suffer over the
actions and reactions of other people.
Other adult human beings are not my responsibility,
no matter how closely their lives may be intertwined with mine.
I will not allow myself to be troubled by anyone else.
My one problem is to improve my own way of living and looking at life."
pg. 7 of Al-Anon book. ( Jan. 7 )

What about the
omissions of other people ? Those too are actions ( not taken ) based upon decisions.
Relationships are two-way. Does the other person
demonstrate that he or she WANTS the relationship ?
Consistentently and honestly ?? Talk is cheap. Actions count.
Are you their safety net in case of extreme emergency, or are you someone they truly value and give their
genuine concern to ? Are they just a taker or a user, or are they a giver ?
Most of all ... are they working a 12 step Godly program ? No ? Then just say no.
"No human power could deliver us from our obsession, but GOD could and would ... if He were sought"

Detachment
"Often a good relationship with someone we love is materially weakened because of our lack of willingness to
release that person to experience his own lifestyle. Husbands and wives, brothers and sisters, parents and children, and oftentimes good friends are alienated because of a feeling of being stifled.
If there are persons with whom you would like to improve your relationships, practice the fine art of letting them know you care--but at the same time, release them to their own life experience--release with love and prayer."
* * *
Recovery from Domestic Violence
www.robindyer.org.
Robin Lynn Dyer www.geocities.com/robinldyer



FOOD ADDICTIONS
obesity



From Overeaters Anonymous: " Your commitment to abstinence from compulsive overeating is the most important thing in your (physical) life without exception....
If you do not abstain from compulsive overeating and practice moderation at meals,
you may destroy your chances of finding health, happiness,
self understanding, and peace of mind."

12 Step Links
http://www.oa-dcmetro.org/links.htm

Overeater Anonymous
http://overeatersanonymous.org
www.overeaters.org and www.oa.org

Recovery from both alcohol and food addiction
http://recovery.hiwaay.net/special/aarecovery.html


ANY ADDICTIONS
Computer Addiction
Filters for your computer...NET NANNY...customize
http://www.netnanny.com/prod_NN4_Description.asp


Emotions Anonymous
http://www.emotionsanonymous.org/
Forgiveness is not necessarily fellowship;
Forgiveness is praying for the good of the offender and not wishing ill-will ( revenge ) ;
then moving on.
"from such turn away " -- 2 Timothy 3
"don't throw your pearls to the swine" -- Matthew 7:6
http://drbenkim.com/blog/2006/07/how-to-forgive-someone-who-has-hurt.html

"Let go, and let God ( handle that person ) "


Pornography
www.porn-free.org/index2.html

How porn works
http://www.porn-free.org/how_porn_works.htm

How does a person keep oneself from impure thoughts ?
By reading and daily feeding on the Bible. Psalm 119: 9

Dr. James Dobson's interview with Ted Bundy before his execution
http://www.pureintimacy.org/gr/intimacy/understanding/a0000082.cfm

Don't get embarrassed.....get help.

Other addictions
www.recovery.org/rec3.html
www.addictions.net


 


What about drugs??
coke-cocaine, crack, ecstasy, heroin, marijuana, etc.
COCAINE: Taking freedom of choice away
"Why is this drug so powerful, so all consuming, so deadly? The answers lie within the brain. This drug is one of many that has the capacity to alter brain functioning and take an individual's freedom of choice away. It happens to be quicker and more efficient than others.
And for those who don't quit cocaine, one of three things is guaranteed to happen.
They will end up in prison.
They will end up in a mental hospital.
They will die.
The real tragedy is the number of individuals whose lives they destroy along the way."
http://www.mobar.org/law/cocaine.htm

See TEEN CHALLENGE
www.teenchallenge.com/main/drugs/maripage.htm
www.teenchallenge.com/index.html
www.NARCOTICSANONYMOUS.com
http://hem.passagen.se/aibbal/engelsk3.html


pills



"Soma, soma, soma " ---- from
Brave New World, by Aldous Huxley
"Instead, it provides a mindless, inauthentic " happiness" -
a vacuous escapism which makes people comfortable with their lack of freedom.
Soma is a narcotic that raises "a quite impenetrable wall between the actual universe and their minds."
http://www.huxley.net/soma/somaquote.html

Many Americans drive drugged
http://www.knoxnews.com/kns/national/article/0,1406,KNS_350_2264425,00.html

Testimonies
http://breadsite.org/topics.htm
http://www.lifeway.org/stories.htm

Twenty-two million addicted
"The study, released by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration on Friday, finds that 19.5 million Americans used illicit drugs in 2002. This works out to 8.3 percent of the population age 12 or older
The survey found that marijuana remains the most widely used illegal drug,
with an estimated 14.6 million users in the past month.
"In 2002, an estimated 2 million persons were current cocaine users," the report adds. Of these, 567,000 used crack. Hallucinogens such as Ecstasy were used by 1.2 million.

"drug and alcohol addicts often do not recognize that they have a problem, the report said. "Over 94 percent of people with substance use disorders who did not receive treatment did not believe they needed treatment," the report reads."
http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&cid=571&ncid=751&e=1&u=/nm/20030905/hl_nm/health_drugs_dc
"they repented not of their sorceries" Rev. 9:21
"sorcery" comes from the Greek word "pharmekia" (pharmacy) meaning "drugs"





Homosexuality:
Agape-love for the sinner, separating from the sin.
Those who endorse prove that they love the sin while hating the sinner;
Those who hold forth the Word of Life prove that they love the sinner and hate the sin.
Biblical Truth = love

Speaking the TRUTH in Love ...
Romans 1

Leviticus 18:22 "Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind. It is abomination."
the director of the Human Genome Project, Dr. Francis Collins, said this: homosexuality is not hardwired. There is no gay gene. 
We mapped the human genome. We now know there is no genetic cause for homosexuality

http://www.onenewsnow.com/Church/Default.aspx?id=250538

Leviticus 20:13 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

Isaiah 53 " All we like sheep have gone astray; We have gone each one to our own way."

Michael Glatze ( Gay activist ) leaves homosexual lifestyle -- July 3, 2007
http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=56481

Testimonies of Deliverance
http://www.thebible.net/cnlglfg/

Transexual: Transformed -- Perry
http://www.stonewallrevisited.com/pages/perry_d.html

Life and Liberty ministries
Christians persecuted for freedom of speech
http://www.lifeandlibertyministries.com/

True confessions..from WND mailbag Feb 28-2002
I was a homosexual – until I was 28 years old. There was nothing "gay" about the lifestyle at all. I was with well over 100 people sexually – many whom are dead today from AIDS. It's a miracle I'm alive.

Stephen Bennett Ministries http://www.sbministries.org/

Stephen's Testimony
http://www.cnsnews.com/ViewCulture.asp?Page=\\Culture\\archive\\200202\\CUL20020226a.html

" I mocked and made fun of "Christians" for years, yet it was a dear Christian woman who showed up at my door one day with a Bible, and shared with me Jesus Christ. 
It was the Word of God alone which broke my 11 year destructive homosexual lifestyle -
one of numerous homosexual encounters (well over 100), as well as one of sadness, loneliness and pain.  Today,
happily married for over nine years to a wonderful Christian woman with two beautiful little children, we truly have a passion and compassion to reach out to these dear homosexual friends.
" --- Steve Bennett

"But whosoever shall offend one of these little ones which believe in Me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
Woe unto the world because of offenses ! for it must needs be that offenses come;
but woe to that man by whom the offense cometh!
Matthew 18:6 ; Mark 9:42; Luke 17:2;
_______________________________________

Ann Paulk, a former lesbian turned wife, mother and cornerstone of the Love Won Out ministry, appeared in a New York Times ad addressing homosexuals:
"I‘m living proof that truth can set you free."

The following day, a Washington Post ad declared,
"We‘re standing for the truth that homosexuals can change."

Phones rang off the hook, at both papers, Parshall said.
And retired football player Reggie White ran willingly into the cultural war front lines with his infamous speech to the Wisconsin legislature declaring homosexuality a sin, and abortion wrong.

"The earth shook, and he lost millions of dollars in employment from television and advertising," Parshall said.
"But Reggie said,
'I‘m a multi-millionaire in heaven.'
Rival ads said no one can claim an exclusive relationship with God. Wrong!
The Bible is the truth, and that sets the captive free."
http://www.americonservative.com/Parshall.htm

There is a Way Out
http://www.stonewallrevisited.com/pages/otherway.html

Nothing but the Truth-
--June 4-2002
http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=27836

Excuses, but no reasons --Dr. Kelly Hollowell
http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=39489

MISSION: AMERICA ....telling the truth about homosexuality
http://www.missionamerica.com/

No Truth to being "born gay"
Camille Paglia, a lesbian activist has had the courage to boldly state what most homosexuals refuse to admit: "Homosexuality is not ‘normal.’ On the contrary, it is a challenge to the norm…Nature exists whether academics like it or not. And in nature, procreation is the single relentless rule. That is the norm. Our sexual bodies were designed for reproduction…No one is born gay.
The idea is ridiculous…homosexuality is an adaptation, not an inborn trait…."

http://www.worthynews.com/commentary/born-gay.html

Prophecy Central
http://www.bible-prophecy.com/homosexual3.htm

What about Homosexuality?? EXODUS INTERNATIONAL
www.exodusintl.org
http://www.messiah.edu/hpages/facstaff/chase/h/index.htm
http://masteringlife.gospelcom.net/page.php?load=art
http://www.firesofdarkness.com/homosexuality.htm
http://home.messiah.edu/~chase/h/
JONAH --Jewish same-sex attraction
http://www.ldolphin.org/jonahgays.html

NYC bans
Leviticus 18:22

"Call to Courage" against freedom of speech
But "Scripture could not be clearer on this topic," she stated, pointing to Matthew 19, "which records Christ's words that people were created 'from the beginning' as male and female, and the two become one when they marry."
"This group is clearly operating by 'seat-of-the-pants' rules," Harvey said.
"They have decided to alter Scripture or disregard it for their own twisted purposes.
"By encouraging people to believe homosexuality is compatible with Christian doctrine, they will lead many people directly into harm's way,
http://www.crosswalk.com/news/11539822/

Exgay Nomad links
http://members.aol.com/exgaynomad/x_org.htm

"If we say that we have no sin, we decieve ourselves, and the truth is not in us."
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to
forgive us our sins,
and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."1 John 1:8, 9



SMOKING

Testimony of a former smoker
http://www.his-forever.com/quit_smoking.htm

www.nicotine-anonymous.org
www.quitsmoking.com
www.quitnet.org/qn_main.jtml?nosession=true
http://www.baptisteast.com/beh000.cfm
http://clinweb2.kumc.edu/assessment/smoking.htm
http://members.tripod.com/~carolannem/index.html




What about His Blood?
www.cybertime.net/~ajgood/blood.html




Internet Laws for Online Gambling
http://www.onlinecasinoreports.com/news_show.asp?id=1608

What about GAMBLING ??
http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/recovery.html
http://www.gam-anon.org/gamanon/index.htm and www.gam-anon.org
Internet Gambling; Forums, Blockers http://www.nomoregambling.com/
http://www.azccg.org/seniors.htm
http://www.way2hope.org/linkmachine/resources/resources_directory_gambling_addiction.html
http://www.istoppedgambling.com/
http://www.800gambler.org/
http://www.lakeweb1.com/mrp/LinksGambling.htm#Gamblers_Anonymous_Literature_Online
http://www.minnesotarecovery.info/LinksGambling.htm
Testimonies
http://www.christianactivities.com/testimonies/story.asp?ID=4577
www.gamblersanonymous.org
includes many many links

Gambling : A Global Scourge -- March 15, 2006
The
European Commission may take legal action against six of its member countries for restricting gambling operations like sports and online betting while permitting citizens to take part in national lotteries.
Ed: Where is their moral integrity ?

 Europe's internal market commissioner, Charlie McCreevy, wants to take action against Germany, Finland, Sweden, Italy, the Netherlands and Hungary for either restricting the advertising and promotion of gambling services or banning the services themselves.
 
European Lotteries association
The association, based in Lausanne, Switzerland, represents lottery operators in 40 European countries. It generates €80 billion in revenue a year. About €30 billion is channeled back into state budgets
http://www.iht.com/articles/2006/03/14/business/gamble.php




FREE TO FLY
www.cybertime.net/~ajgood/free.html

walking in the SON shine.......
.?

Most Famous Poem
Read the Word,
Read the Word,
Read the Word,
Read the Word.

..................................................by John Hagee

"Not by might, nor by power, but by My Spirit, saith the LORD of hosts."
Zechariah 4:6


From the Newswires:

Brits( NHS ) to deny medical treatments for "self-inflicted" problems -- Dec. 2005
Ed : Is this active-addiction or past ( recovered ) addiction ?
Jesus healed all those who came to Him, "worthy" or not.

"People who are grossly overweight, who smoke heavily or drink excessively could be denied surgery or drugs
following a decision by a Government agency yesterday
.
The National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (Nice) which advises on the clinical and cost effectiveness of treatments for the NHS, said that in some cases the "self-inflicted" nature of an illness should be taken into account."

One group of primary care trusts is ahead of Nice. Last month three PCTs in east Suffolk decided that obese people would not be entitled to have hip or knee replacements unless they lost weight
Yesterday's report, Social Value Judgment - Principles for the development of Nice guidance, said no priority should be given to patients based on income, social class or social roles at different ages when considering the cost effectiveness of a treatment
The report said: "If the self-inflicted cause of the condition will influence the likely outcome of a particular treatment, then it may be appropriate to take this into account in some circumstances."

"There is no excuse for cash-strapped hospitals denying treatment to people whose lifestyle they disapprove of," he said. "Treatment decisions involving people's lifestyle should be based on clinical reasons, not grounds of cost. The NHS is there to keep people healthy, not to sit in judgment on individual lifestyles."[ Steve Webb ]
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2005/12/09/nice09.xml&sSheet=/news/2005/12/09/ixnewstop.html

Ed : You can't find the word "nice" in the Bible, but you can find the word " compassion".

No smoking. Period. --Dec. 2005
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml;jsessionid=U0DBBZPOBZ0AZQFIQMFCFGGAVCBQYIV0?xml=/news/2005/11/29/nsmoke29.xml

Court may oppose mandated 12 step programs
http://www.reason.com/0105/fe.st.drunk.html

Homosexual Politics

http://www.bible-prophecy.com/homosexual2.htm#010621

 

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